Pamper her... everyday
Pregnancy is known to be difficult for everyone. But these 9 months are probably the best days, too. While ladies are already doing a lot of work, even when it seems like they aren’t, a little effort must go in from the expecting dads as well. Inspired by the highly-loving and affectionate husband, Jai from Kalyana Vaibhogam, here are five tips for you.
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Like Jai, you must pamper her. And not just once or twice, but every single day. Maybe a foot massage, a wholesome meal, a relaxing bath and so much more. The list goes on, you have to choose your pick.
Be at her beck and call
When your lady love is preparing to bring a happier tomorrow, she will need you to do too many things. Maybe drop off something for her or bring something that she wants. Even if it’s a glass of water, you must do it. Because it is in times like these where she needs you the most than anyone or anything else.
Bear with the mood swings and the untimely cravings
Yes! Mood swings and untimely cravings are a thing and we all ought to accept it. Bring her the chocolate ice cream she wants or take her to the mall on a crowded Sunday evening. Do it! While she thinks about what affects the baby, you think about what she enjoys and what makes her sick. From colours to fragrances or even people, keep the things that she enjoys close to her.
Embark on the pregnancy journey with her
The internet will throw many suggestions at you to try a bodysuit so that you can “share” the pregnancy. But hey, let’s be real. That isn’t how things will work out. If walking alone is a task for her, tag along. Maybe become her gym partner too. Watch her favourite rom-com at 2 am and drop the habits that aren’t good for her or the baby.
Prepare to be the dad
Last and most important! Women have many sources to know what’s happening in their bodies because they have been told about pregnancy all their adult lives. But you, my friend, need to do your homework. Because it’s all new for you and understanding what’s happening to your partner should be of utmost importance.
Of course, keep reminding her of how much she is loved and how good life is/will be. Stay tuned for more interesting stories and watch a good comedy with your better half on ZEE5.